The Queer Confidence Podcast
Want to become more confident? This show is for you. Learn tips for intimacy, dating, relationships, sex, people pleasing, boundaries, and more so you can confidently be your authentic self. Join Coach Alex Ray (he/she/they) and LGBTQIA+ guests. Visit coachalexray.com to learn more.
Episodes
131 episodes
Queer Intimacy Challenge
I've been cooking up something super fun for the month of June to bring more confidence and self-esteem to Pride Month.This the very first podcast challenge!Pride month is an amazing time of celebration and reflection and recogn...
The Big Move (Part 3)
You're about to get some solid relationship advice out of an argument my mom and I had on the road.It started off with a lot of anger towards each other, but by the end of it we both felt closer and more trusting of each other.Y...
The Big Move (Part 2)
Today I share with you the $2,000 DRAMA the day before my move which nearly delayed it by a week.It turned into one of the most perfect scenarios though, and reminded me yet again of a very important life lesson I seem to forget.
The Big Move (Part 1)
I am so thrilled to begin this multi-episode series with you today!As you know, I recently moved from Maryland to California and it has been quite the adventure!The growth, the fear of change, the very rocky start less than 24 h...
Being Supported
Asking for support is one of the most difficult things.Especially in Western culture, we like to take pride in what we can do on our own.And I know I am guilty of thinking that confidence and self-sufficiency requires meeting my...
Judgmental Parents
In this episode, we're talking about how to address your obnoxious, judgmental parents.AND we're talking about that really annoying gift they gave you of their voice in your head...you know. That inner critic that sounds just li...
This episode might piss you off
This episode might piss you off because it's a blow to the ego.It'll require you to hear some things that will at first shock you, and likely annoy the F out of you....but only because it's true.If you have the bravery t...
Nude Photography w/ Images Male
Today I want to share with you one of the most confidence-boosting experiences I have had in a long time.Have you ever thought of booking yourself a nude or boudoir photoshoot?Are you feeling like you'd need to be a lot more con...
How To Make Friends
In today's episode, I want to share with you how I magnetically attract friends.This topic came up by request through my Instagram stories.So here it is!I want to give you the beliefs and habits that allow me to walk int...
Patience
Patience, what a f***ing frustrating concept.Yuck.I’ve had to practice it a lot recently, with my business fail, Gideon’s injury, and especially with my move from Annapolis to San Diego.So in today’s episode, I want to t...
Overcoming Shame & Living Polyamorous w/ Chuck Copenspire
Whoa!!Today we covered a lot of ground.I can't wait for you to hear from Chuck as he shares his story of overcoming shame about his autism, parenting, polyamory, and so much more.If you're working on releasing shame in a...
Spirituality & Queerness w/ Kayla Adreene
If you have felt othered by spirituality or religion because of your queerness, this episode is for you.When I was in San Diego a month ago I met this awesome, magical, soul in a Kava bar.She showed me around Hillcrest, introduc...
WORTHY (✨ANNOUNCEMENT✨)
Every problem in relationships (romantic or otherwise) traces back to your sense of worthiness.When you are trying to earn your worth, you show up inauthentically, you people please, and you end in resentment.In today’s episode,...
Release Control and Attract w/ Brian Grainger
In this episode, my client Brian Grainger shares how he's used my Confident Queer Process to release control and attract clients, friends and partners.He also shares tips that he uses with his weight loss clients that will work in datin...
Body Image & Honoring Your Autonomy w/ Victoria Jocko
Today I have my incredible client Victoria Jocko on the podcast to share how the Confident Queer process helped her gain confidence in her body and her relationship.She's actually an empowerment coach herself and I am delighted for you ...
Masturbation
In today's episode, we're going to explore how masturbation as a metaphor can increase your confidence...And how literally masturbating can too!If you want to get in on the next round of the Iconic Queer Mastermind and apply all...
BDSM
On today's episode, learn how to find pleasure in your power AND your submission, as well as how to feel pain in a whole new, much less painful way.Every heartbreak, every loss, every asshole comment your boss makes, every time you catc...
Your Authentic Power w/ Angel Flores
You met her on Queer Eye Season 6,Her story had us balling our eyes out,She's strong AF! (inside and out)Today's episode will touch your soul as you get to know Angel Flores even deeper.She shares how she finds the confi...
Kink
Kink is about finding play and pleasure and joy and satisfaction in the taboo, the uncommon, the weird, the naughty.Insecurity can only keep growing where you stay “safe” and “predictable”.Listen to today's episode to finally ha...
Sensuality w/ Kerri Blankenship
Sensuality is not all about sex.In fact sex is just a very small part of what it means to be a sensual being.But I'll let my new friend Kerri Blankenship explain all that to you.Tune in to today's episode to connect with...
Edging
Two weeks ago we talked about Glory Holes, now we are talking about Edging?What is this?I'll give you a little taste:When I learned to Edge in life, I had similar results to the bedroom.More joy.More desire.<...
The Episode with Grandma
Whoa! Are you ready for today's guest?!?!I can talk with her about anything,And we frequently laugh till we cry... or pee our pants... or both 😂My Grandma is on today's podcast.We talk about her life, me coming out to...
Glory Holes (In Life)
It's that time of the year again when everyone is making vision boards, manifestation journals, and setting their goals.Today I'm not offering you a new system, there are way too many out there already.Instead, I want to offer y...
When I'm Wrong
I am wrong sometimes.Maybe event oftentimes.And I have had some wild realizations about myself over the past month.Some of the things I saw I didn't like.In today's podcast episode, I want to make sure you know one t...
Fashion Confidence & Following Your Right Way w/ MaShawn Jones
On today's podcast, Confident Queer MaShawn Jones joins me again to give you alllllll the gold nuggets on what helped him become confident.MaShawn is standing up for himself in relationships and making bold career moves.He share...
